Sex Toys: I Dare, I Dare not?-Part 2

The vibrator

In the catalogs of mail order, it appeared for tens of years as a modest accessory rather austere to relieve back pain. Today, whether rabbit, duck, penguin, vibrating egg or lipstick, he masters the art of disguise as well as that of the conquest of the G-spot.

What's the point? Hypocritical version: toning a distended perineum after childbirth or sphincter incontinence. In fact: equipped with remote controls, they have no equal to stimulate the G-spot (they find it!), Clitoris and vagina at the same time thanks to multiple tips. Even more daring, the vibrating egg detached from his remote control: we hide it in a strategic place of our own, our darling puts the order in his pocket and all this little world goes to dinner at stepmom ...

The penis ring

Once is not custom, it is sir who sticks! This ring is attached to the base of the penis. It exists in many forms: basic, ring, with various functions, bracelet in five rows of beads that fit on the penis ...

What's the point? Stimulate the clitoris, delay ejaculation, maintain great form during intercourse and intensify orgasms. But it is a little chameleon: some are equipped with seven different functions, equipped with languages ​(if, if ...), pimples, rabbit ears, and a miniature tail. In short, there is only the embarrassment of choice and then, it is necessary to test without hesitation to pay off his person.

Since Sex and the City ...

... the intimate toy is riding high. What they say! Because just at the idea of entering a certain perfume chain or a luxury boutique that sells a particularly naughty little duck, it blushes up to point G! And since we do not really know where he is, it's our confusion! However, we will not be condemned to tapestry in the antechamber of pleasure because the manufacturers of adult toys have understood the side that does not want to seem to touch and have used the Internet to provide us with accessories as diverse as they are varied but all have in common to know how to put us in all our states.

In any case, it is Carrie, the ole heroine of Sex & the city who affirms it loud and clear, brandishing her little erotic rabbit without complex. The lady thought to create the event? She's just ... 2500 years late! Yes, pleasure toys were already fashionable at that time among the Chinese, Greeks, Egyptians or Romans. People who knew how to enjoy life, they who had not hesitated to call the first of these malignant objects "gauge mihi", which means in intelligible French "rejoice me". But how do you ... In fact, we all remember the contemporary declination of the word - dildo - which proves that we can be a pleasure and a fine scholar

Prescribed by the Faculty

Still hesitating to afford a trip to the shelves of adult toys? The word is in science: "In some cases, sex toys can be indicated as part of a sex therapy, recognizes Dr. Sylvain Mimoun, sexologist, and author of the Larousse of sexuality. The vibrators can help the woman to find the way of pleasure and the man to better apprehend the erogenous zones of his partner. And if the man is poles apart, first and second? The sex toy makes sense because real or geographical celibacy does not rhyme with abstinence. Certainly, side tenderness, hugs, the wealth of contact, we did not do better than a partner but at least that one does not leave the tube of toothpaste open on the sink ... Convinced? It remains to make his choice ...

Sex Toys: I Dare, I Dare not?-Part 1

Are you still hesitating to make a trip to the shelves of adult toys? The opinion of a sexologist may help you to take the plunge ...

5 tips to seduce your partner

With our darlings, the sex toy, it goes or it breaks! Some will jump on the accessory, admitting even that they had dreamed since the dawn of time. Others, more reluctant, will play us jealous: "This thing is better than mine? ". Five-point approach strategy.

Make it a topic of conversation

That's right, the adult sex toys are trendy, we even talk about them in the fashion section. So it's a trendy talk. Sometime before going to the exercises, discuss the subject in a general way. Nothing personal, especially not evoking a talented lover in this area. A subject of a ferry, what ... Observe his reactions: he listens, his eyes twinkle, he looks shocked, shocked?

Realizing visually

By surfing the internet to find the mustard rabbit recipe, you've come across an in-belief-able site! And to invite darling to come and learn about these rabbits like no other. Sometime later, your nocturnal walk will bring you -in-believe-to-be! - in front of a sex shop. Too funny! What if we came in, darling? But beware, the atmosphere is pretty creepy in general ...

Try the experience

Between the rabbit not so mustard that and the sex shop in the corner, if you played your cards well, you have what you need in the closet. Maline, you have invested in the model for beginners, a simple vibrator. Your darling is reluctant? This is because there is only one model. The trick is to propose three: there, he is obliged to choose one, he can not say no. If you have tested and know the practice, you will have to play fine, because sex question, gentlemen do not like to pass for beginners.

Be patient

Youpi, he accepted, but it is short? Paris was not built in a day. We go back on traditional galettes and we promise to return to the charge very quickly, but not too much and with two or three other models, just to remind him of previous failures.

Guide him

With or without the toy, a man needs to be shown the caresses that we prefer, the sensitive areas and all the trimmings. Under the pretext of making him an erotic show, give him a demonstration then place his hand on yours and guide the sex toy together. Soon, he will take orders as a leader.

3 naughty toys to test

The geisha balls

The hit movie has lifted the veil on the manners of these mysterious heroines. It remains to understand the use they made of this toy consists of two balls of 3.5 to 5 cm (plastic, latex, silicone, silver or gold) connected by a cord. Available with vibrators and remote control.

What's the point? Each ball contains one or more marbles whose movements, related to the movements of the lady who carries them in his intimacy, will solicit the muscles of the vagina. Ideal to get started because the sensations they cause generate intense lubrication in the slightest case.

Pregnant, Can We Use a Vibrator?

Can the use of a sex toy during pregnancy be potentially dangerous for the baby? Vibrator and pregnancy do they mix? The point with Dr. Gérard Leleu, sexologist.

Sometimes, over the weeks of pregnancy, the libido of the pregnant woman ignites and the urge to test  Kamasutra pregnancy is added temptations ... more mechanical! To give a boost to their sex life, some pregnant women are thinking about the adult sex toys. What about vibrator during pregnancy? Some elements of answers with Dr. Gérard Leleu, sexologist.

Pregnancy and vibrator: beware vibrations

Vibrating duck, Geisha balls, dildo, vibrator ... if they are sources of pleasure (s), sex toys can they have adverse effects during pregnancy? For Gérard Leleu, sexologist: the answer to this question is unequivocal! "From the beginning of pregnancy, vibrating sex toys are to be avoided. The vibrations emitted by this type of adult sex toys are at the origin of ultrasounds which at the do not know the repercussions on the fetus. On the other hand, the noise caused by the vibrator disrupts the natural environment of a baby, "he explains. And these recommendations are not just for vibrators: small sex toys vibrating designed to stimulate the clitoris are also to ban  Exit, therefore, the duck vibrant during the nine months of pregnancy ...

Pregnancy and vibrator: how to have fun differently?

For Dr. Gérard Leleu, to do without vibrating sex toys during pregnancy should not be experienced as frustration. After all, would not this be an opportunity to "  relearn the finesse of the hand and find the benefits of simple caresses? Sex toys, very mechanical, can quickly become addictive. So much so that we sometimes forget the effects that a simple caress can have,  "continues our expert.

Do you want a little sensual exoticism during these few weeks so special? Be aware that non-vibrating sex toys such as Geisha balls or dildos are not contraindicated. "  The use of this type of sex toys has the same effects as a sexual relationship with his companion, so they are not prescribed during pregnancy  " recalls Gerard Leleu. In a word, treat yourself!

Vibrator: a great asset after pregnancy!

If the vibrator is to be avoided during pregnancy, it may be useful after delivery. " By having fun with adult toys, the young woman is more" in control "than making love with her boyfriend. This can be a way for the woman who has just given birth to relearn her body and resume her sex life smoothly  "explains Dr. Gérard Leleu. And to conclude: "  We must above all wait for the woman to be ready and feel the desire to make love again  ".

Part 2: About Female Masturbation

Masturbation and water: a pregnancy masturbation

This practice is very suitable for pregnant women. It does not stimulate the vagina but the clitoris and the vaginal outer zone. No risk of dilatation of the cervix or premature delivery, an unfounded fear of some future mothers.

Masturbation with water is a gentle masturbation, natural, sensual and very intimate. It is practiced in good times, usually in the shower or bath. It is not necessarily scripted or prepared as masturbation with a Masturbator or other sex toy. It is a masturbation of the moment, more erotic than carnal, where one seeks as much pleasure as sensations of well being.

Masturbation and water: the pleasure of the water jet

It is a female masturbation that is practiced in the shower with the help of the jet of water. Some women are very sensitive to the strokes caused by the spray on the clitoris and vaginal lips. As part of a bath, you can use your hands, but also accessories such as a duck to stimulate everything that is possible, from clitoris to vagina and more if needed! This type of masturbation can be shared. This makes perfect and hygienic preliminaries before the quilt! After childbirth, it is an adequate sexual practice to restore smoothly with pleasure.

Masturbation with the hand

It is undoubtedly, for him as for her, the oldest masturbation techniques. Despite the arrival of sex toys and other objects of masturbation, it remains a safe bet and resists the technological invader!

Masturbation with the hand: the discovery of oneself

In men and women, the discovery of one's body, as an object of sexual sensations, begins with one's hands. It is initially a learning of the body and the acceptance of oneself. It starts with caresses on the breasts and then touches the nipples before touching on the clitoral area and the vagina. It's a naughty moment but also full freedom.

Masturbation with the hand: ideal for pregnancy

There are no postures and predefined techniques in masturbation with hands. Each woman is unique, some prefer petting on the clitoris, others will introduce one or more fingers to stimulate their vagina, others will prefer the outer walls of the vagina.

During a pregnancy, it is the most recommended masturbation. Without a vibrator, without sex toys, without objects, it is the least disturbing masturbation for the fetus No noise, no vibration, it's perfect for baby!

The obvious advantage of masturbation with hands is that we guarantee to reach orgasm even when we are pregnant.

Finally, masturbation with hands is a great way to reconnect with pleasure after giving birth. To recommend in this case!

Masturbation with the hand: hygiene issues

Masturbation with hands is the most hygienic - with masturbation with water - provided you follow certain precautionary rules: clean hands and nails, without cuts, are put. If you use lubricants, check that they meet French standards.

Part 1: About Female Masturbation

With the lifting of taboos, the appearance of sex toys, feminist claims for the right to pleasure but also with mass pornography, female masturbation has been revealed to both men and women.

Unlike male masturbation, female masturbation is diverse. Masturbation with water, masturbation by hand, masturbation with sex toys like a Masturbator and objects. It must be said that the woman has two orgasmic areas: the clitoris and the vagina.

Female masturbation and pleasure

"I take the most pleasure with a dildo, it's quiet and you can find it in any shape"  Virginie, 24 years old.

Female masturbation participates in her knowledge of pleasure. Am I clitoral? Am I vaginal? How to reach point G? It only takes a moment of intimacy, a good dose of fantasy and some objects or not, to discover his sexuality. A vibrator, a pillow, a sex toy or a simple jet of water can give unsuspected pleasure. According to the latest Hite report in 2011, 85% of women reach orgasm through masturbation.

Female masturbation and pregnancy

"I discovered new forms of pleasure through using a Masturbator during my pregnancy, thanks to her, I did not have a low libido and even my husband took advantage!" Daniela 25 years old.

Doctors recommend female masturbation during pregnancy, especially when sexual intercourse is not possible for the woman. It is also for the couple another way of living sexuality during this period.

Female masturbation after childbirth

"I really did not dare to redo my love after giving birth, the apprehension was way too big, I started masturbating with dildos and balls of geisha, so our first report was written like a letter to post! "  Sophie, 28 years old.

Do you know that in Germany, gynecologists recommend the wearing of geisha balls after childbirth? Considered as a sex toy, this Masturbator can remuster the vagina while giving pleasure. To rediscover sensations after childbirth, touch is essential. Clitoris, lips, vagina, rediscover everything as the first day!

Female masturbation: still taboo in women

Even though the shackles of deviance have been lifted for a long time, female masturbation is still regarded as shameful by many women themselves. "I'm married, I do not need that" The weight of religious morality, the weight of patriarchal society means that women do not assume masturbation. It is experienced sometimes as a  failure of the couple  "I do not find the pleasure with my companion" or as a  personal failure  "I can not find a man", which makes it difficult to talk about it and what can harm a sexuality flourished. Yet, both female and male masturbation is harmless to the body and mind.

Masturbation and water

The accessories are beautiful, but when we are allergic to vibratory objects and other protuberant latex, what is left? Have you thought about masturbation and water games? It is a method that seduces more and more by its softness and its hygienic side! A gentle masturbation, ideal during pregnancy and to reclaim his body after childbirth.